I’ll Never Say It’s Ok

Today I was working away in the kitchen, making tomato sauce, peanut butter, and smoothies at the same time. I guess I was so busy I didn’t notice a little intruder make his way past the baby gate fortress into my thicket of house maker taskmaster solitude. I looked down just in time to see Timo reaching his hand towards a mop bucket of boiling hot water. When I saw what he was about to do I screamed, “NOOOO!” as loudly as I could. He was in danger, and I needed to be as forceful as needed to prevent him from getting hurt. If I could have reached I would have pushed him away from the water bucket, but thankfully he heard the tone of mommy’s voice and backed away. He looked at me for an explanation and I told him, “It is very hot!” He said, “uuu hot” (he says uuu for it). Then he walked over for me to pick him up and take him out of the kitchen.

We’re Getting Closer

As we get closer to our Lord and Savior coming, this world is getting more and more dangerous. There is a specific danger that many societies used to be more aware of, but as time progresses it becomes more and more acceptable in it’s various forms and frequencies. That danger is sin. As Christians we are called to share about the danger of sin. Just as I was not about to willingly condone Timo getting third degree burns, Christians are supposed to warn the people around them about the dangers of sin. What is so dangerous about sin, you might ask. God’s holy word tells us that, “sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death,” in James 1:15. Hopefully we are also familiar with this verse, “For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord,” from Romans 6:23. Sin is so dangerous because it leads to death, which can also be stated as eternal separation from our Eternal Father in heaven. Sin leads to the worst possible thing that could ever happen to any human being, eternal separation from God. Let me just state the obvious here, which is that if you are separated from God for all of eternity, that means you will be spending eternity suffering in hell (Matthew 25:31-46). I know most of you know that, but I wanted to make sure not to gloss over that very important destination.

When God tells us not to sin in the bible, it is because He loves us and He knows how destructive sin is to our souls (and many times physical bodies). He is warning us!!! As Christians it is our duty to warn others about the danger and destruction of sin. Let me remind you that Satan, “The their does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy.” In the rest of John 10:10 Jesus offers that He represents the opposite, “I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.”

That is why, as a follower of Jesus Christ, I will never, ever, tell someone it is ok to continue in sinful behavior. Whether that is an adulterous lifestyle, drunkenness, gossip, or whatever other sin the bible teaches us about. If I am loving someone the way Christ demands that I do (Romans 13:9), then I can never tell them it is ok for them to continue in behavior or activity that will hurt them, and possibly keep them from entering into a redemptive relationship with Jesus Christ. That doesn’t mean I can’t warn them in a loving way. If I am going to go around calling people out on their sin simply because they are sinners, and I have no love for them in my heart, I’m not any better than the Pharisees that Jesus confronted.

This week in the media there have been two stories revolving around two popular bands in Christian circles, Switchfoot and Jars of Clay. Switchfoot (who does not even call themselves a Christian band, although their fruits speak for themselves that these guys are obviously Christian) has been getting harassed by protestors claiming that they are going to hell because they sing rock and roll music. Their response? Jon Foreman takes water bottles out to the protestors and tells the band’s fans to show these protestors love, keeping in mind that is what Jesus taught. Then we have Jars of Clay’s lead singer, Dan Haseltine took to twitter to show his support of gay marriage and implied that those that didn’t agree with his supportive stance were ignorant, tweeting back and forth saying things like, “Could there be something to learn from them {the LBGT community}? Or are we passed the ability to learn?” But I think the bigger issue is that Mr. Haseltine is missing the point, because by encouraging someone to continue in a life of sin, you aren’t loving them. I don’t want to start a huge discussion about homosexuality and Christianity at this moment, but I will say that I love homosexual people, and I care enough about them to tell them the truth, without being hateful or judgmental, because of that love for them. I’m a sinner too after all. Jesus loves all sinners, and He came down to earth and was tortured and sacrificed His life to get that message out! As a sinner that was dead in my trespasses and miserable living in a life of sin, I cannot tell you how much that means to me personally.

And that is why I’ll never say it’s ok to sin. Because if I love you, I just can’t tell you that.

When someone is about to stick their hand into boiling hot water, I am going to warn them. That doesn’t mean all I do is bring up people’s short comings, well all have them. I have many friends that are unbelievers, and my main goal is simply to love on them and let my life and actions be a witness for Jesus Christ. However, when I see a friend or family member involved in some kind of destructive behavior, I am going to point it out to them as lovingly as possible.

Sacrificing For A Real Relationship

God’s timing is also very important and I rely on the Holy Spirit to tell me when I should speak up. We also have to establish trust with people before they will be willing to listen to our warnings. My son understands that I love him and I was warning him because I cared about him. He wanted to know why I yelled like I did, and he responded to my warning by listening and asking me to pick him up. This is possible because we have a relationship. He trusts me. If you really care about being an effective witness for Jesus that can speak into people’s lives, you first have to be willing to invest in a real relationship with them. Make whatever sacrifices you can to show them that you love them like Christ loves the church, with no strings attached. Then when the time comes, be bold and speak truth in love.

So here is my encouragement for all of us as Christians:

We need to be warning people, in love, and in God’s timing, that their sin is killing them.

Sincerely,

Kristin

P.S. In case you are interested in some amazing and encouraging words, check out the utmost.org excerpt for today here.

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